Been married 25 years and have not had sex of any kind (except with my toy by myself) for 10 years and it was probably7 years before that when sex was good. I find that I am not the only one in a celibate marriage. Other than the "no sex", there is really no reason to leave. I did have a few affairs about 12 years ago and found them lacking and the guilt depressing, so will not go that route again. The reason our marriage is celibate is that my husband is morbidly overweight and not only can't I find it, it grosses me out.
LAST NIGHT!!!! So sorry to the previous posts :( I have often told my man I feel really sad for people who have not experirnced "Our Love" I truely know it is something special. We both havent always been this lucky. We have only found each other this past year,I am widowed and he divorced (cheating spouse). I used to think all those sayings about love where so cliche, Now I feel like I love you is just not good enough. We are both in our mid 40's and just cant get enough of each other.
sorry to say, ages ago.
ReplyDeleteI agree it has been a very very long time as well
ReplyDeleteI'm starting to believe I'm setting my expectations too high. I keep wanting MORE!!
ReplyDeleteBeen married 25 years and have not had sex of any kind (except with my toy by myself) for 10 years and it was probably7 years before that when sex was good. I find that I am not the only one in a celibate marriage. Other than the "no sex", there is really no reason to leave. I did have a few affairs about 12 years ago and found them lacking and the guilt depressing, so will not go that route again. The reason our marriage is celibate is that my husband is morbidly overweight and not only can't I find it, it grosses me out.
ReplyDeleteWay, way too long.
ReplyDeleteIts been so long I cant even remember
ReplyDeleteLAST NIGHT!!!! So sorry to the previous posts :( I have often told my man I feel really sad for people who have not experirnced "Our Love" I truely know it is something special. We both havent always been this lucky. We have only found each other this past year,I am widowed and he divorced (cheating spouse). I used to think all those sayings about love where so cliche, Now I feel like I love you is just not good enough. We are both in our mid 40's and just cant get enough of each other.
ReplyDeleteDon't be sorry be happy that you have found this for yourself and your spouse. Enjoy this as long as you can. Humans need that touch
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