Friday, March 8, 2013

Master Simon

I am starting this post for all of you who feel you would still like to discuss, comment on, commiserate about...Master Simon.

Korner Kafé eXposed is clearly not the place to do that at this point...and for several reasons that I'm sure most, if not all of you...are aware of.

So vent away, my friends!  Yell, scream, cry, question...do whatever it is that you feel like doing.

I hope having this forum helps you express as you would like, without the UNWANTED judgment of others. 

Be free, my friends!!  :-)  Share your thoughts, please.

138 comments:

  1. I know he is gone but what else have I missed?...

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    1. I don't know if you've missed anything. If you saw yesterday's drama on "kkX", then you have missed nothing. I thought it was better to provide this outlet because I think a lot of people are still wondering, wanting to talk about it, etc...and it was getting completely out of hand on the page.

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  2. Master Simon is gone because all the crazies ran the poor guy off. It's really sad.

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    1. It is sad, Ashley...I completely agree. I also understand though, based on what I went through myself yesterday on the page (as well as a few other times when the posts were about Master Simon), why he has come to this decision. I can only imagine what he was dealing, considering we were privy to only what was on his page, you know?

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    2. You have just been amazing by the way! I didn't ask any questions but, i did learn a lot just in the short time he was around.I hope that maybe sometime he can come back and contribute every now and then.

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    3. Thank you so much. And I did make the offer for him to "use" the page as his outlet, if only for that one night a week, but...haven't gotten a response to that, whether it be "yet"...or that I won't. I'm hoping he will take some time to "de-stress" though, put some distance and return with a clear mind. I guess we shall see.

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    4. I completely agree he should take a break. lol he would spend hours answering questions and dealing with drama. He did mention that he was in a current relationship with a sub. So I am sure that all the crazyness took a tole on his relationship as well.

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  3. I do miss him. I think that one persons feelings or opinion should not allow everyone else to be punished, and maybe it just wasn't ONE person who made Master Simon to up and leave like that, but to punish everyone....I don't think that was fair. I also feel that that contacting those who he was training as his Subs, don't they deserve respect or some courtesy from him as to him leaving? That was alos unfair. I miss his "Good Morning Angels" postings......

    I wish him well.

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    1. He really don`t owe anyone anything with the way he was treated that is just how I feel about it.I also miss his post.

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  4. He will be missed but he has a right to a life without all the craziness & drama. He was trying to offer guidence but some people seem to be unable to separatetheir Facebook/on-line lives and reality. It was not a punishment it was self preservation. I wish him all the best. Gail Taylor xXx

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  5. I agree with hermina. He atleast should contact his online subs out of courtesy for them. I just don't understand if he was so upset with fb why go open another page and shut it down again yesterday.

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    1. I miss him too.. he had a lot of good insite. I do agree he should reach out to his online subs to say something. .. time will tell I guess... I do wish him well....

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  6. I am annoyed and disappointed...I'm more so disgusted with how both you and Master Simon were treated. I respect his decision, saddened, but I respect it.

    What concerned me was how obsessive people were, and so hateful. I know we as individuals want to always believe we are never judgemental, well reality is we are, it comes with the nature of being human. To be so judgmental when someone is inviting you into their world from their perspective is wrong.

    I know I wasn't the most active participant with questions or comments, however to read and see from a perspective I wasn't aware of was thrilling. It brought out curiosities I didn't know I had, offered light on an area that is appealing but so unknown to me.

    In the end it comes down to respect and control of oneself. When you read a book or watch a movie you don't like, you stop...you walk away...you leave it behind and clock it up to an opportunity that you realise isn't for you. What has happened is discraseful.

    Thank you for your efforts and courage...I just hope people learn from their mistakes and get a grip. Then again that sounds like a judgement right? :)

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    1. Heather, it's just a judgement you are just saying the truth :-)

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    2. Heather, you are 100% correct in my eyes.

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  7. Maybe he was trying to get away from his online subs

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    1. May be you are.right.

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    2. I don't think so. From what I understand they are the only one's that went with him...

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    3. He did not abandon his online Subs.

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  8. I am very upset that Master Simon had to leave us because of people that can't act as normal human beings. I loved reading his posts and learning things that was before this, in my life, was impossible to ask or inquire about. I know we didn't have him long on this page, but for the time we had his input, it was wonderful. I trusted what he said and I feel a loss with him gone. As I have said before, we may not like his decision, but we must respect it. His subs are very lucky to have a Great Master (although I am sure they already know this). Life is not fair most of the time, but I, for one, am truly happy that I had the opportunity to know him, even it was just on paper. He seems to have such a gentle, but firm soul. I will miss him. My heart is breaking and definitely missing a piece, that I thought I found, finally. Thank you to KKX for bringing him to us, even if was for a short time. Keep up the good work.

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  9. It is always a disappointment when the crazies ruin things for those of us that take things seriously and want to learn from others. I really enjoyed him and the discussions. I wish him the best also. Thanks for bringing him in and letting him share while he could. I hope that we can maybe do more with another or find a way to have a more controlled environment with someone else, who knows. <3 H

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  10. Furthermore, I don't know who all were his SUbs, but I do recall him answering one my questions and he stated "A MASTER DOES NOT GIVE UP ON HIS SUB AND A SUB DOES NOT GIVE UP ON HER MASTER" So now I'm sitting back like O.o huh? He just contradicted himself. This exactly what a guy that I was once seeing did to me....Just up and leave...MIA (Missing in Action). No email, phone or Txt. But in this case, I....I don't know.....

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    1. That's the worst part ..the feeling that you did something wrong to deserve at least a thank you good bye

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    2. Hermina you live in a harry potter fantasy life. You don't become a sub in a couple days and handful of emails.

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    3. I concur Anonymous. You feel as if YOU did something wrong knowing well you didn't but it's just human nature to feel that way. Yes, I and everyone else can respect his wishes but he posted things on his page to give some kind of ORDER on his page. I remember him speaking on posting Pictures on his page and the right/wrong way to ask him a question.....then he said finally, he got some sleep and got to spend time with his lin-in sub so to up and leave....IDK I definitely don't think it was Fb that shut his account down. someone said something and it got nasty.

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    4. We don't know that he did abandon his subs. We don't know anything!
      For all we know he took them and escaped the crazies! I read some of those posts. Some of those women were wack jobs!!!!!!!!!

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    5. I have not seen where he has keep in touch with any of his Subs.It is SAD that alot of them feel they let him down. Most post is subs stating he has not been in touch so there for i feel none of them have had any contact from him sense he left facebook.As a good Master/Dom you would think he would think about letting them know something but no he just left them without any word.

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    6. For the Anonymous who wrote: Hermina you live in a harry potter fantasy life. Let me you something. I may not be living the best life but you don't walk in my shoes just like I don't walk in yours. I love to read because yes, it enables me to escape realty but that is my choice. I didn't go crazy in messaging master Simon on his page. Another thing, I love Harry Potter. I even collect some of the memorabilia, but that's my damn business. No one else. I live my life the way I want to. Thank you very much so before you open your mouth and say something about me, you better make sure you take a hard look in the mirror at your own self!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  11. I agree with Heather, it saddens me that if people are so unhappy with a page that they cannot control themselves enough to act like an adult. We are all adults here, If I don't like a page, I don't friend, or like that page. That's what normal adults do. I'm so sad to have to miss out on an opportunity to learn from Master Simon. I hope that if he is able to get a page or blog going, you would be able to share that with us.

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  12. He left with out saying a word to his online subs , including me. I understand he has issues but when he took me as his I took it bet serious ...he said he want it my hart, body and soul and I gave him mine. He should have at least explain to us the why... Is sad but he say he never quits and he did quit on us. I wish him the best. But I'm hurt at the same time.

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    1. I agree and feel the same way... as he demanded I gave him my mind body and dreams . I followed all the training to the tee... but nothing back from him...

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  13. Maybe now everyone wont take what they have for granted!

    For those "crazy" ones I beg of you to realize what you may of done differently if given another chance!

    Get up from your computer and go hug the people in your real life! Hold them tight because at the end of the day
    That is all that matters! To be in lust or love with a man you just met (ONLINE) is silly!

    Yes I see the draw to the man, I talked to him a handful of times and he was every bit respectful to me!
    Respect the man who needs to away from craziness of social networking!

    Also never assume things he has done with letting people know what is up! He said goodbye with his "going fishing" statement!

    Who knows maybe later on once he breaths again gets back on track with his life and his live-in sub maybe he will explain!

    Until let him go, remember who you have in your life and don't take them for granted because you never know when they may leave!!!

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    1. Amen to that...

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    2. He want it the attention and he got it...he just couldn't handle it and he made ppl have hope I'm him. It was a teacher student relationship not a love one.

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    3. You did not talked to some of the woman I spoke to! They would of given the chance to hurt their real life for him! That isn't teacher/student relationship that is lust! Which makes theme crazy!

      I am the one posted this first so you know!

      I have NO judgement to the online subs of his that may of been married or in a relationship because I know they may of been doing the training to help their life! Which is good!

      But maybe taking time away from the online world for a little bit will help people see DONT LET THOSE AROUND YOU GO! some people spend way to much time online in a fantasy world they go "crazy"


      I fear that these crazy woman are just unhappy with their life but instead of working on the real life part they lock themselves in social networking to not address the real problem! That is when people start drama get obsessive and have a hard time seeing the sufferance between real and fantasy!

      I talked to Master Simon and addressed my concern of these woman and he agreed he didn't like how he was giving his time to teach and he would get day after day of drama and people judging him for what he does with HIS time! Woman became jealous they weren't being answered the man had MANY messages at a time poor guy was probably pulling his hair out with each obsessive message after another!

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    4. I absolutely can not believe that Master Simon went ahead and actually abandoned his online subs! that is appalling to me! a true Master, and Dom, is supposed to care about his subs ALWAYS! no matter what upset him he should have ensured that he stayed in contact with you. I have been on Master Simon's side from day one but now I'm really starting to question him. I still really don't understand what happened. I know some people say that things got too crazy for him but Master Simon was the one that wanted people to message him with questions. are we to believe that he suddenly couldn't deal with it? that doesn't make sense to me. I know in his last post he said something about another accusation but that didn't really tell us much. I did see the comments, that were being made about him, on Kallypso Master's FB page but in all honesty he should have had thicker skin and been able to ignore those comments. the comments were rude, and totally unfounded, but a real Master would have had the back bone to let them slide. it feels like he decided to go ahead and have a temper tantrum, I expect better from my 12 year old. by ditching, and running, like this he has validated all of those stupid women's accusation. yesterday I made a comment about how it felt like we were being punished because of the behavior of some people. some women decided that saying this meant I didn't have a grasp on reality because he owed us nothing. well, I beg to differ. especially when it comes to his online subs, and people like me, who started having conversations with him via private messages. he built bonds with a lot of us and we trusted him. I can understand if he needed to take a breather and maybe step away for a few days until the craziness died down but totally shutting us down like this I don't understand. there were many more people that liked him than there were people that had issues with him. I'm no longer so sure if his live in submissive is such a lucky lady if this is how deals with stressful situations. I'm really sorry that he abandoned you like this. did he not give you any other way to contact him, other than FB messaging?

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    5. I have not spoken to him! Last thing he said was this is out of control! Than nothing!


      I will not ever bad mouth the man, I have up most respect for him I shall give him time if he wants to come back and explain that is up toHIM to be needy is silly! I was learning to be a sub and one act of a sub is to not push him! He has control if he feels the need to come and speak to me than I will listen. I am not mad at him for him leaving to make sure his life with his live-in au. Suffers from him not being around.

      But until than I shall respect his choice as should all of you! Those of you that were also in training one rule of being a sub is don't demand things from your Master! But as of now I am not in training. If he comes back and says he will set up times than ok but I will not email him the email he had given us all I will wait for him to relax for it is him that should be happy with training. It

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    6. he should have done what many of these other FB page admins do with crazy people, delete and block. he didn't have to respond to everything that hit his inbox. and he could have made it clear on his page that he would block any person that sent him inappropriate photos of themselves. he did mention to me that he was getting lots of those inappropriate photos on a daily basis. I really don't understand why people do that. sad :(

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    7. Yes that could of been an opinion. Cant say why he didn't! But I am sure he would of been doing a lot of blocking!!!!

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    8. I hope he rethinks his decision to leave and gets back in touch with his online subs. of course he has a right to his decision and only he knows what's best for him but a final goodbye to us would have been nice.

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    9. I feel if you give men time they come around. You can not rush a man and you CANT demand a dom to do what you want! He is dom for a reason! But I think everyone needs to just relax go pick up a book our LOVELY KKx has recommeneded get lost in them feel them! Than go and find that! Do searches of your own there are plenty of sites to just put your nose in to learn. But of course be safe never put yourself in harm! If it feels odd don't do it! But you can educate yourself that is the awesome power of the world wide web the information is endless!!! Infact they just increased the size of the Internet so information goes forever!!!

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    10. He even message me.that same morning giving me my task for the day...and 8hrs latter ...nothing...

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    11. WOW! that is not cool! I'm really sorry that you built a bond with him and that he broke your trust like this. very disappointing!

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    12. Awwww, to Anonymous at 7:01 PM! Thanks so much for the "LOVELY"! ♥

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    13. You are lovely I have a journal full of books I want to read from you!!!

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    14. Nowhere is it said that he left his online subs. Trust me....he took the ones with him that he wanted to. As for all the crazies, they know who they are and what they did. Master is a wonderful, caring man that cares for his subs. That is all I have to say on the subject. Other than the fact that if you were an online sub in training and you didn't get asked to follow Master....take a hard look at how you treated Him or hounded Him with questions.

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    15. He did not abandon his online Subs! Master is a kind and Generous man.

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  14. i concur with Ashley Billiot. KKE You have been patient and understanding with all the crazies, yet you still manage to try to bring on smiles and still continue to suggest books. You keep going just like your fans and Master Simons must do. I know I have probably been an annoyance....messaging you but Thank you for your hard work and energy that you brought fourth

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    1. Thank you so much, Hermina. And please know that you have NOT been an annoyance at all!! You've been privy to ALL that I have been going through on the page. Believe me, your messages are a bouquet of flowers, compared to. ;-)

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  15. Doms like control but unfortunately you can't contol facebook...

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    1. I think the problem was that he didn't want to control his page. anytime anyone would suggest a way he could deal with the madness on FB he would say no because he wanted to make sure anyone could reach him.

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  16. I dont think it was just one person who ruined it, i think there were many reasons. I miss his humor,guidance, and i miss reasing his post.I can only hope to hear Good Morning Angles but i dont think that will happen. I feel like it is a sad loss as he was a sweet and generous person who put himself out there to help answer questions and guide others. I hope that he took his fishing trip and is enjoying himself. It does feel unfinished but,I will miss you my friend, hope to hear from you someday. Best of luck in whatever you do! Your Sub is one lucky girl!

    KKX thank you for all that you have done and putting up with the crazy stuff! love your page!

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    1. I agree! Very well said

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    2. Thank you very much, Nancy! It is absolutely my pleasure, well...maybe not putting up with the crazy stuff...lol...BUT all the rest of it, for certain.

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  17. A lot of people are getting mad at Master Simon for up and walking away. You need to stop and put yourself in his shoes. It is always better to walk away when you are pissed than to say things you might regret. Give him time and he may get in contact with us when he calms down. He was doing us a favor for talking to us and answering our questions. There are a few people that are only thinking of themself and thinking about how he feels. He does have a life. Give him a chance to regroup and think things through.

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    1. A Masters /sub relationship is about trust... How can we trust him after he left us like this... I wish him good don't take me wrong but he could have send private messages disciplining our saying he was going to take some time.

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    2. Agreed I feel people need to just relax yes it is sad he is gone but he is a man that had MANY woman running to him! Wouldn't you feel a little overwhelmed if that happened to you! Like holy crap he even said he couldn't stand living with two woman because his pactince wore thin!

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  18. At least I save the picture of his eyes and look at it every morning.

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    1. How do you even know it is him? Could of been just an image online and someone used it!

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    2. Where did you see/get a picture of his eyes?

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    3. he open the third page right sftet he close the second and he close it with in 48 hours that's where I got it

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    4. Don't worry that wasn't him.... But I did saw the page with a couple of girls that being to his other page.

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    5. consider yourself lucky if u have a picture, most of us can only use our imagination

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    6. Where was it posted? on his wall? I never saw it...

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    7. That wasn't him

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  19. So the page did exist? For you to say.."that want him"?

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  20. Someone made that page up! As a fake profile....people cane be weird like that...happens everyday online have you not seen "catfish"

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  21. thank you KKX for bringing us Master Simon in the first place. I really liked him and enjoyed talking to him. and thanks for giving us a place to vent about his sudden departure. I hope Master Simon knows we miss him and appreciated him.

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  22. Lol I'm thinking of open a group for his online subs..

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    1. LOL sounds like fun. Maybe trade assignments that we may not have gotten.

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    2. That would be crazy But also wrong he said it was between him & his online SUBS and she was NOT TO TELL ANYONE SHE WAS HIS SUB IN TRAINING

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    3. I know right!

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    4. That right there is proof of crazy! You song talk about what you where learning as a sub its Master/sub not Master/sub and everyone else ever!!!

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  23. Put up that picture so we can see it

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  24. I miss him and His GOOD MORNING ANGELS I was one of his online subs,I have not heard from him after he left his last post said It wasn`t worth it. I don`t know if any of his online subs have gotten emails or anything from him as for as me I have got nothing.Am i upset?yes.Am i confused?yes But I am not mad at him I wish him the best in all he does.I will NOT try to email him when someone says they are DONE and just leaves,that means HE WANTS TO BE LEFT ALONE!!!! I will be ready to take his email if he ever wants to say why he did what he did. But I can say when i read the Crazy things people post about him I UNDERSTAND that he just needed to get away. I miss him and wish him luck in his REAL life!!!

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  25. THERE IS NO PICTURE OF HIM ON FACEBOOK ANYWHERE. That was one thing he always said NO ABOUT.

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  26. Would someone who saw his last post please let us know what it said? I was not online and came to his page and it was just gone... Was there something on another page that upset him? Or did someone bash him on his page?

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    1. his last post said something about "another accusation" and that he was going to go fishing. and then a few hours after that post the page was taken down. from what I remember no one said anything to him on his own page. it all happened somewhere else.

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  27. This online sub is just one of the things i do not understand. Its one thing to take a complete strangers advise to use on your significant other. Its a whole other subject to only know who this man tells you and after knowing him 3 weeks (maybe) online you are a devoted online sub? This seems absurb to me, no offense to any of you that seem to have become so excited by a "good morning angels"
    It remind me of high school when a cute new Jock comes to school and everyone is fighting for a turn with him. I just don't get the hype of this one particular stranger i guess.

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  28. you ladies are a trip! How do we know that he indeed left his subs? Maybe he left some? did you ever think that maybe he left some of his online subs because they got too needy!maybe all the craziness got to him. I read those posts. Seriously, those women were obsessed and crazy!!! come on! still trying to see pictures of him. grow up!

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    1. Agree maybe he only took a few you never know! He said himself if he felt you were worth his time he would help. That is how it goes! Those he left if he left all than guess just not worth the time!!


      Also he said NO photos why would he put one up after that simple so guess what the photo you have isn't him!!!!! Grow up ladies you wont see him! Accept it if he feels like he should explain he will but this isn't high school and he is just a man!!!

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  29. I know master simon started a 4th page on f b and it was master simon but he had Simon masters and a photo ohalf his face an those green eyes I know this was master because after message him with in an hour the page was gone I didn't want to bother him I just like the post he put his page and I never message him giving a hard to or even asked a question because he had so many to answer but I had said to him when he started the first page to be prepared for crap and people will not understand.

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  30. I believe if people had treated Master Simon with the dignity and respect that they themselves would want and had kept from invading his personal life, he would still be around to provide insights into THE LIFESTYLE he enjoys. I didn't ask any questions, but I found his observations enlightening. I hope one day to hear more from him without any childishness from his audience.

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  31. kkX God love you for opening up a place for these ladies to vent it out. Now hopefully they can move on. If you really truly want to learn to be a submissive use google and read! Master Simon isn't the end all to the lifestyle. No one really knows what is in his head so all you can do is move forward without him. If he happens to come back then you can decide if he is a reliable person to put your trust in or not.

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    1. Agree bdsm. Doesn't end at him use the Internet you girls are already on and find out the info is endless!!

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    2. Maybe they were looking for their Christian Grey in Master Simon!!! Lmao!!!

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  32. kkX God love you for opening up a place for these ladies to vent it out. Now hopefully they can move on. If you really truly want to learn to be a submissive use google and read! Master Simon isn't the end all to the lifestyle. No one really knows what is in his head so all you can do is move forward without him. If he happens to come back then you can decide if he is a reliable person to put your trust in or not.

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    1. I think what appealed so much to some people is that he communicated with you on a one on one basis so it was a lot more personal than just going on google and searching the info. and all these other Dom FB sites aren't very personal overall. I think people connect with others through those sites but they are nothing like what he was doing.

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    2. I get that. I talked with him and he seemed like a nice guy, but it doesn't change that he is gone and it is time to move on.

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  33. I'm curious. What training would he give the online subs? I saw the madness coming because he kept asking people to message him and to spread the word about the page, creating a frenzy. I was fascinated in the whole thing like watching a train wreck!

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    1. You got tasks you did them than explain in your own words how you felt about the task what you experianced. You learn why the task is given the different parts of bdsm. These tasks must be done in 24 hours and a report must be made. He watched for growth and change you had to act never hasitate if you felt uncomfortable you explained y and he would explain y it was important to understand these tasks he asked.


      Pretty simple he isn't a bad man in anyway!...just took to much on at once which happens

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    2. I'm curious why he didn't want his online subs talking about the assigned "tasks". why would it bother him if they decided to share their experience. there should never be secrecy. there are lots of other Dom pages on FB and submissives are always sharing info about their training and punishment.

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    3. It was more he didn't want others jealous that's all

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  34. well he kinda did it to himself with please message me...and then gave out an hotmail address he was asking for trouble ...he should of just waited til the ban was lifted from his page....post the question and answer in a post ...he won't have been hounded like so... he went about answering everyone's question on a personal level that's why eveything went to crap...maybe some day when he's finally recover from all the chaos... he just might return but I say sit back an relax and enjoy life.

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    1. I agree, he was constantly asking for people to send him messages with questions. there are so many posts where he did that. I think there is much more to this whole story and I really wish we could find out what exactly made him lose it on that day. because his last post said something about "another accusation". I just wonder what that was all about. that's really what is keeping me interested at this point. I keep hoping someone knows something and will spill. LOL!

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    2. I wouldn't bet anyone would so don't hold your breath

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    3. He open pandora's box and keep telling ppl to text him? Come on most pages have 3 admins..and can berly keep up... He should have known better.

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  35. I asked him what an online submissive was all about and how they work. He said you will have tasks that I give you ex: you will pleasure yourself before we talk each day and you will have to do certain things like write across your breasts "Master Simon" in permanent ink and take a pic and send it to him. That would never work for me but maybe other women would do that.

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    1. Yes he said this to me too I didn't have to do any of that. One thing is you have to get permission to pleasure yourself for that day! Allow tasks envolved pleasuring yourself in different ways and places!

      You would have an orgasm for him it belonged to him he was just the basics of training he was YOUR Master you don't say it any other way. A Master is what he is and you respected that to earn his respect! Hr is an honorable man took thought in you may not be always alone but made sure you were in it for the right reasons! It bothers me that people still say hateful selfish things!

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    2. I can't even imagine my husband's face when seeing "Master Simon" all over my breasts-eek!

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  36. Those who said or say the disrespectfully things about Master Simon or the lifestyle too me they are nothing more then cold heart SEXLESS hitches who probably what more out it but just didn't qualify for the position ...those who do know or understand don't need to judge its something that fills that in void if something extra in the sex life ....spank ya later

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  37. To be honest I only joined the Korner kafe yesterday, and caught the tail end of this controversy, but I have lived the lifestyle, and have a good knowledge base on the subject. I do not know anything about Master Simon, and his techniques, but I can tell that his heart was in the right place. Those of us who proudly fly the triskellion flag love nothing more than to share our knowledge with those that are interested. I do however think that Simon was naive in the way he went about this. FB may be a great place to share information, and learn new things, but it is a bad place to initiate a sub! Especially multiple subs that are new to the lifestyle. There is no way that you can achieve the level of trust, and intimacy needed to form a relationship like this on Facebook. I suspect that this realization spurred his withdrawal from his online D/s relationships. My only hope is that he at least left behind some resources, and referrals for his "subs" if not I highly recommend that those who are interested check out Fetlife.com. There are many resources there for all levels, and types of kink, and it is a good starting point. A little bit of knowledge can be a dangerous thing! Please always remember to stay safe sane, and consensual, and never enter into a D/s relationship without a very thorough contract in place.

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  38. I think it really comes down to Master Simon taking on too much and getting so overwhelmed to the point that he no longer thought it was worth the trouble. I mean no disrespect to him or anyone else. I did enjoy the banter on his page. KKx has a great page and they need to keep up the good work!! I have found too many good books from there :)

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  39. After reading half of the comments, I am surprised he lasted that long.
    So many "But he left without a word" comments.
    He is a Dom, but he is also just a GUY and all this crazy might have been way too much for him.
    Sure, he agreed to help and share, but I bet he did not expect anything like this.

    He has a real life beside all the social media and online stuff.
    He has his sub and I bet, she is happy, he is not that much online anymore and that stressed and annoyed by all the drama.

    Just let him cool off and maybe, when he had time to relax, he might come back.
    I really hope, he does, because I enjoyed that he shared his knowledge.

    And if he ever comes back, I hope, everyone finally learns how to behave and understands, that at the other side, there is just another person.
    Give him some time to breath and, those, who feel let down ect, please start some thinking and understanding, there is a huge difference between online and real life, even though there has to be trust and respect.

    And KKx, thanks for all the work and working through all the drama.
    JUst through you, I found amazing books which I wouldn´t have found anywhere else.

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    1. Don't forget he was the one that agreed to HELP and get SUBS online....he could just have kept his regular page answering the regular Questions....

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    2. Sure he did. But he did not sign up for all the ppl getting out of line right?
      I do understand that you are disappointed, I would be too, but he is just a human being.
      What are you expecting of him?
      He has a real life, a sub and, of course, work to do.
      He can´t be there for ppl 24/7 and if that is a problem for you, you should realize, there is the difference between online and real life.
      Real life is always more important and if he needs a break, respect it and give him his time.

      From what I read written by him, he is not doing this, because he is a mean person. He is just talking care of him. He needed a break and so he took it.
      He was kind enough to offer his help and some ppl seem to think, just because he did it, he ows them something.
      Srly we are all adults.
      Why do some think they need to be have like teens, who can´t see the difference?

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    3. is coming since it's like opening a restaurant if we're not going to be able to handle restaurants don't open one, I'm glad he has a life and I'm glad he's happy with his Sub I understand he the the 1 that wanted to tension and that's all it matters he got that atteension and he couldn't handle ..it...
      I wansnt one of his subs But I feel for the ones that really want it to learn.

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    4. Sure it sucks but what else than respect it, can you do?
      Getting upset and throwing a tantrum is not getting you anywhere.
      He decided to leave because he didn´t want to have the drama anymore and to honest, I would do exactly the same because some seem to constantyl overstep boarders.

      I enjoyed him on the page a lot and I learned a lot from him and yes, I am sad too he left, but I was brought up the way to respect ecisions and to show ppl the same amount of respect as I wanted to get from others.

      I wish him well and hope, maybe, when it calmed down and he had some time to breath, he might come back but until then, there is no reason to freak out, cry and create more drama because that´s not gonna make him change his mind.

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  40. KKx, thankyou for keeping us all informed with what info you have at hand. I think we all appreciate it. I just wish he did like you do, a blog, he wouldn't have to deal with all the fb crap and we could all get our fix. Oh well, I suppose we shall all have to wait and see what Master Simon decides is in his, and his sanity's, best interest. I for one shall miss him because it's hard to try and discover that part of yourself with only research. You really need someone to talk to and ask stupid questions. Great Blog BTW :)

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  41. I have a huge problem with these women getting bent out of shape over a man they never met. Sure you can ask questions and get some insight, but to be an actual sub via online? Sorry, that makes so sense! How can you truly appreciate the dynamics between a Master and his sub if not face to face? You're right it's very high school, and I've been out for a very long time and have no desire to go back! lol

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    1. I so agree how does one have a Dom/Sub relationship via email or chat ...I rather have that touch and emotional connection with a person physically....spank ya later

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    2. this whole online sub thing is the latest rage. I've been reading other BDSM FB pages and there are lots of "submissive" women hooking up with "Doms" online. it's totally weird to me. and according to these women they've been in these virtual D/s relationships for up to 1-2 years. I don't get it. I think it's no different than women who like to write letters to prisoners. it's probably that same kind of feeling. not saying Master Simon is a convicted criminal or anything like that. just comparing the relationship aspect. I don't want anyone jumping on my case for using the analogy.

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    3. I'm the one who started this thread...So online subs are the new rage? Doesn't this put the whole BDSM lifestyle back in the closet? We were afraid to "come out" and be who we really are because society has us labeled as misfits. Now we have online subs or what not znc in a sense hiding again! Maybe I'm over simplifying or maybe its just the "in thing" now. Either way, I'm happy with who I am and have no need for an online Master when I have a perfect one at home! P.S. ladies, I had to ask for what I wanted, maybe for those who are in committed relationships should do the same.

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    4. ...and sorry for the typos!

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    5. I guess the thing is just that some ppl are not able to see the difference between the real life and online.
      I wouldn´t be able to trust someone 100% online because you can´t see someone in the face. Everyone can pretend to be who ever they want and in the end...

      For me, I am as inexperienced as it can get in the whole BDSM world BUT from the things I learned from all my experiences, online is online and there are a lot of wackos out there.
      Never saying Master Simon is one, but you can´t just be 100% sure online.

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    6. You are so very right!

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    7. I don't think the purpose of online D/s relationships is to put the lifestyle "in the closet". I think that the internet has made it easier for people to connect across the world that might otherwise never have made contact with each other. I'm not part of the lifestyle and am just now starting to learn things about it. I have a husband who's willing to try just about anything so I have no need to look for an online relationship. I just want to make clear that I'm not speaking from experience here but I'm hoping to change that in the near future. ;) I would think an online D/s relationship couldn't be anywhere near as fulfilling as the real deal. I was just pointing out that the whole online thing seems to be getting pretty popular in the BDSM world.

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    8. Here is some information for you to better understand the online Dom/sub relationship!

      I am in an online Dom/sub relationship...NOT with Master Simon!!! I didn't even get the chance to speak with him but I did see the tail end of him online. Was interesting to see so many after a man! But I see the appeal when you are interested in this lifestyle and want to learn and are given it to you on a silver platter!

      What it comes down to with online Dom/sub relationship is that trust is worked on greatly! You have to trust each other, for example I trust my Master will take great care that I do acts upon myself for him and prove of my acts to him. I tell him everything from what I used to please him to how I felt and what I found not for me. He knows what turns me on with out touching me. He uses his words! He also has to take trust in me that I do these acts! Trust is a major part of BDSM online and in life!

      My Master was the one who trained me we do not live near each other but we have a bond that we both enjoy! Also I get to know the man he is as well, his personal interests and what he does for a living. He cares deeply for me and what I need for me to be happy! He respects me and I respect him. We are not dating!! He is not my partner he just feeds my needs to be submissive. I have told him I do want a Dom in life not online but I wish it would and could be him. This couldn't happen due to the fact he is on the other side of the country!

      My Master can get me to orgasm with just simple words and just a look just as though he is by me! He has me touch myself thinking it is him! Your mind is a powerful thing if you allow yourself to go into that state!

      I love my Master dearly and I can see many of you were feeling that bond with Master Simon and I think what he set out to do was very sweet! It takes a kind heart to want to do that! And for him leaving you, look at it this way he is Dom he has a mind set of control and I have read that he once had two live-in subs and that drove him crazy! Now put yourself in his shoes and not have 2 subs but MANY woman wanting to please him or ask him so many questions over and over the man could go insane!

      I don't think badly of him at all and I am sure he did keep some who he felt was worth his time and lessons! Ive asked my Master if he felt having many subs online was good for a Doms sanity! At that moment I didn't know my Master had more subs but I soon learned he does. He said that if you keep control of the numbers and set special times for each and get to know each the relationships can work.

      I support my Master in all he does and with how many online subs he wants or in life I am not jealous and I hope the others are not either! Everything is about your Master!

      But don't bash online Dom/sub relationships yes some may go insane as I can read here and on kkx woman can be catty with one another! It isn't your pleasure it is his! He just fills your desires to kneel down in front of him and bow your head and wait fir the next command! I kneel each day and I am proud! I am not putting BDSM in a closet I just haven't found that right Master to take me over! You need to be sure of trust in everything!

      Online is more it isn't physical but sometimes when you get into that state of mind it feels like it, it can feel like he is right in front of me and touching me! It is a state of mind not everyone can do but it feels good! I am not blind to real and online in any way once I am released out of being in sub mood for my Master I go back to me as a person. I wish to be a sub 24/7 though.

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  42. Anonymous, I think you are right about online relationships. Honestly there better ways to get this information than FB. It seems those that choose to stay online with their kink are only kink on paper. When it comes push to shove they may not be able to handle a true D/s experience. It might stem from insecurity or fear of the unknown. There is nothing wrong with that! We each choose a path that is most comfortable to us. For those that do want to take that final plunge there are plenty ways to do it. Most cities have an active BDSM community which is why I recommended Fetlife.com, because it is a good way to enter it as safely as possible. Finding the first Dom you come across, and trusting them with your life is not how to go about things. Start by finding local workshops, and munch's where you can meet local practitioners in a safe environment as well as learn along the way. Then maybe attend a local play party, and get actively involved in the community. When you meet a Dom ask around the community about them first. Find out their reputation as a Dom, and make sure you are completely sure that they are truly what they portray themselves to be with a safe, sane , and consensual track record.If you are leaning more to a switch or Dom role then you can learn how to be a good Dom. You cannot just pick up a flogger, and go to town with it. flogging is an art form, and impact play of any kind requires many hours of practice. Well I sure hope this has been at least somewhat helpful. My only goal here is to ensure that everyone has a positive, and safe experience. BDSM should never be a negative experience for anyone! I can tell there are many people that have been hurt in this experience. Wether rightly so or not they are still feeling these emotions. My best suggestion is to focus on how to overcome these feelings rather than dwelling on it. There are other roads to be travelled, and other Doms in this world.

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  43. Here is something for the Master Simon followers:
    "There are things we don't want to happen, but we have to accept. Things we don't want to know, but have to learn and people we can't live without, but have to let go".

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  44. I have to say I joined fetlife and cancelled within the week because it was nothing but people trying to hook up and have sex with you without even knowing you. As soon as you joined a group the would pounce on you with sexual propositions. My friend had a man hounding her to meet him somewhere so he could spank her and wasn't taking no for an answer. Thanks but no thanks! I went there to learn more and instead ended up scared. So if you do fetlife you still need to be careful it is not that great from what I saw.

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    1. thanks for the information

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    2. I agree on the fetlife thing. You are hounded by a few but you just have to ignore them and find someone you can talk freely to. Only do what you are comfortable with.

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    3. I'm the person who was hounded by the guy wanting to spank me via Fet Life. I joined the community because I honestly thought I would get some information, and direction, on how to find people in my area that could teach me about BDSM. so far all I've gained from Fet Life is lots of very forward messages from men and lots of erection photos. the forums haven't been helpful either since the people answering posted questions are just as inexperienced as the person asking. Fet Life has been a royal waste of time. I don't understand why people keep telling others to use it. there's no one professional in charge on Fet Life.

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    4. I initially had the same reaction to FetLife. but after sticking with it and ignoring inappropriate invitations. i started reading different things that interested me. there are people in charge of the page you just have to do a little research which is hard when you have responsibilities. i have met a few subs and a few doms (after i ignored the creeps) who have been very helpful with any questions and i did not need to do anything for them in return. there are both sane and insane people everywhere but so far after the first week it got better and there are "sane" people willing to give advice or insight to how they have handled certain things. Sorry you had a bad experience on it.

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  45. I am sorry you had that experience! I personally did not, I am not sure why. Granted I did have some propositions, but I ignored them and focused on finding the local groups that were more legit. Yes there were groups that were geared towards a quick hookup, but I dropped those when I realized what they were, and kept looking till I found the right groups. The thing I like about FL is that it is completely supportive of everyone's lifestyle choice. It is a safe place to share without worry of judgement. I have never seen a single harsh or judgemental word said there. I have never seen any pressure towards anyone to go beyond their comfort zones. Nothing in life is 100% safe! Ou should always go into anything with eyes wide open. There are always people that take things too far. It is just a matter of being able to use our judgement to weed that out, and focus on the positive.

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  46. And HOW exactly, ladies, do you even know that "Master Simon" isn't a homeless bum that stands on the side of the road with a sign that walked into a free wi-fi connection? You don't. You can't. Move the hell on already. Act like ladies, not bitches in heat!

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    1. OMG you are so funny, even though I doubt the administrator of this page would do that to us. But I did get a good laugh out of this.

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  47. Honestly ladies why would you want to chase after a Master that didn't want you? He deleted his page, FB didn't do it! He took who he wanted with him, if it wasn't you, GET OVER IT!! He is not the only Dom/Master out there!! Who cares if he comes back, you will only go crazy and run him off again. He knows what will happen if (when) he comes back.....why would he do that to himself???
    I enjoyed him myself but would never go crazy after him.

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  48. Maybe the ones that caused the trouble, are the ones already in a relationship and lied to master Simon and their significant other both. This whole thing only proves that half of us women are crazy. The other half of us have our priorities in line. My two cents ;)

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  49. From what I understand, the moderator of KKx and this blog is the reason Master Simon is gone!!!

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